Role Confusion - Abu Suhailah 'Umar Quinn

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During the first audio Abu Suhaialh 'Umar Quinn (hafidhahullah Ta'ala) covers the folllowing point mentioned by Imam adh-Dhahabi (rahimhullah Ta'ala) in his book al-Kaba'ir:

"The adulterer-fornicator marries not but an adulteress-fornicatress or a Mushrikah, and the adulteress-fornicatress none marries her except an adulterer-fornicator or a Muskrik [and that means that the man who agrees to marry (have a sexual relation with) a Mushrikah (female polytheist, pagan or idolatress) or a prostitute, then surely he is either an adulterer fornicator, or a Mushrik (polytheist, pagan or idolater). And the woman who agrees to marry (have a sexual relation with) a Mushrik (polytheist, pagan or idolater) or an adulterer-fornicator, then she is either a prostitute or a Mushrikah (female polytheist, pagan, or idolatress)]. Such a thing is forbidden to the believers (of Islâmic Monotheism)." [Surah an-Nur (24): 3]

He then brings the following hadeeth: On the authority of 'Abdullah Ibn 'Umar (radiAllahu anhu) that the Prophet (sallallaahu 'aiaihi wa sallam)) said, "Three persons shall not enter Paradise: The one who is disobedient to his parents, he who lets his wife fornicate with another, and the woman who imitates men.” [Authentic chain of narration: Hakim]

He (Abu Suhailah 'Umar Quinn) says:  "If we look at this narration in light of the world in which we live and what the people believe they possess of absolute, unrestricted freedom to do as they will.  Or, they believe that there is no authority over them other than the authority of their own desires and what they want. That they are their own Lords and can control their own affairs, so on and so forth. And it is viewed that the authority of the man over the woman is an oppressive authority. And the authority of the parent over the child is viewed to be an oppressive authority and this is the family that is described here, or the child is disrespectful and unmindful of the parents.  And where the man has no jealousness/protectiveness over his womenfolk. Where the woman acts like the man. She leaves as she pleases and roams about as she pleases and does as she pleases. Then, this is a society that they believe is, and this is the family that they believe is a progressive family a rational family.  This is the definition of the "think-tanks of the major corporations and academia give to a "moderate Muslim family."

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Abu Hurairah (رضي الله عنه) narrated that the Prophet ﷺ said: "Whoever invites to guidance will be rewarded like those who follow him in the guidance are rewarded, and that will not decrease the reward of those who have followed him." [Collected by Imām Muslim

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