Rasheed Barbee (hafidhahullah Ta'ala) delivered a lecture during a seminar that took place at Masjid Ahlul Quran wal Hadeeth
In this lecture he (hafidhahullah Ta'ala) addresses the common complaints that husbands have about their wives and in. a second lecture he deals with the common complaints that wives have about their husbands, of which a breakdown will be uploaded soon, in shaa Allah.
In this lecture he (hafidhahullah Ta'ala) addresses the common complaints that husbands have about their wives and in. a second lecture he deals with the common complaints that wives have about their husbands, of which a breakdown will be uploaded soon, in shaa Allah.
Here is a breakdown of the first of those two lectures that can be found here.
1 - The Wives Don’t Obey Them
2 - Refusing to Come to the Bed
3 - Raising Her Voice & Screaming in His Face
4 - Demeaning or Belittling Him Due to His Job or Income
5 - Placing a Great Financial Burden on the Husband
6 - Exposing the Secrets of the Home
6a - Discussing Affairs with the Co-Wife6b - Speaking to Other Women about Your Co-Wife6c - Exposing Secrets Even After Divorce is Evil
7 - Complaining too Much & Not Having Gratitude
8 - Not Accepting the Rulings of the Scholars
9 - Involving Others in Their Family Business
10 - Arguing & Fussing with His Mother
11 - Being Excessively Jealous of Other Women
12 - Leaving the Home Excessively without a Valid Reason
13 - Embarrassing the Man in Front of the Neighbours
14 - Wearing Makeup & Improper Clothes Outside the Home
15 - Getting Involved in Matters that Don’t Concern Her
16 - Praising Other Men In Front of Them
17 - Woman Exposing Her Husband to Fitnah
18 - Placing Their Pictures on the Internet
19 - She Dishonours Him when He is Away
20 - Letting People in His Home, He is Not Pleased with
21 - Giving Away His Property without His Permission
22 - Helping the Children Disobey Their Father
23 - Her Asking for Divorce without a Valid Reason
There is another post which is titled: The Most Common Complaints Wives Have About Their Husbands, which contains 20 benefits, containing the complaints of wives about their husbands.
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